Dear Little Me,
Look at that hair. Just look at that hair.
You don’t care about your hair.
You let it be. Wild and free.
Part wavy. Part straight.
Bushy, but beautiful.
Why not leave it at that, little girl?
Leave it at that.
Let it be.
Wild and free.
The way God meant it to be.
Perhaps you’ll learn to hide it, spray it, tame it, sleek it.
Perhaps you’ll wonder if you should just cut it all off.
Be gone, bushy hair.
Be gone, you ugly, not pretty wavy mess.
Perhaps they’ll tell you it’s like Brook Shield’s hair.
Perhaps you’ll believe you need a celebrity stylist to manage this bush.
Perhaps they’ll tell you it’s not like hers, hers, hers or hers.
Perhaps they’ll say you can’t cut it this way, can’t style it that way.
Perhaps you’ll want to replace it. Perhaps you’ll wish it wasn’t yours.
But don’t, girl. Don’t. Don’t wish it away.
What if you wore it wild and free?
What if you just let it be?
What if you just didn’t care about that hair?
What if you embraced it, let that hair keep being what it wants to be, let that little girl be who she wants to be?
Because girl? You’re wild. You’re unbridled, running and frolicking free.
That hair’s flowing. That hair’s growing. That hair’s letting loose.
Girl, it’s not so much about your hair as it is that you care.
It’s not so much about your hair as it is that you dare. To be wild. To be free. To let it be.
It’s not so much about your hair as it is that you’re aware. That beauty runs deep. In heart places, in soul places, in places unseen.
So little girl? Just let that hair be. Who cares.
Let your beauty shine however it wants to shine.
Wild. Free. Big. Flowing. Wavy. Straight. Bushy. Beautiful.
It’s all you, girl.
It’s all you.
Leave it. at that.
Let it be.
*This series is inspired in part by a blog post I wrote in January 2014 titled “Go. Like It Matters. Go. Like It’s Your Life.” And in part by Bonnie Gray’s new book, Finding Spiritual Whitespace. For more information about WHY I’m writing this series, click here to read the first post of this series titled “Restoring the Little Girl Voice (Part 1).”